a tranquil life

last fall all 4 of our big boys were playing a sport.

that was the first time they had all played something at the same time.

i wrote about it here, and here, and here.

there were parts i really enjoyed.

but, i also knew that our lives were revolving around the activities.

there was not a lot of family time and we were all exhausted.

i also started pondering how we made time for the activities, but then we didn't have much time left over for God.

that felt wrong to me.

this spring my boys have done nothing.

not one activity.

and we have loved it.

we have taken time to read the Bible together as a family.

we've prayed "cheater" rosaries - just a short version a friend made up.

we have spent lots of time together.

(the boys have not complained once.) 

we've had time to stick straight pins in our hands.

the "world" has hinted that i am doing my boys a disservice.

i started praying some more about our choices.

the boys have even climbed mountains made from dirt.

last week God showed me a verse:

and to aspire to live a tranquil life...

1 thessalonians 4:11
 

dictionary.com defines tranquil as-

free from commotion or tumult; peaceful; quiet; calm
 

now, we still have commotion in our home.

it isn't anything near peaceful or quiet or calm.

but, for us, in this season of life we are in, it does feel tranquil.

we made a late night sonic run where someone was introduced to a chocolate shake.

may is the month to sign up for fall sports.

it looks like we've decided-

bauer is going to continue to do crossfit with the husband.

caden is going to play football again.

bronson doesn't want to do anything.

connor is going to a football camp this summer since he's too young to play.

i suppose bo christian will continue to work on his gross motor skills around the house.

right now, that feels very tranquil for us.